A Philosophy of Relativity

I haven’t seen everything life has to offer, but I do have a few philosophies that keep

me grounded—and trust me, they’re far from ordinary.

One of my most defining beliefs revolves around the concept of relativity. It’s not just

a scientific theory; it’s a lens through which I view the world. Everything, from how

we understand people to how we tackle problems, shifts depending on the angle we

approach it from. Relativity is everywhere, subtly shaping our reality, even when we

don’t notice it.

I wasn’t always this way. In my younger years, I saw the world as black and white.

Whenever I watched a movie with my siblings, I was quick to ask, “Who’s the bad

guy?” But as we watched, sometimes the answer wasn’t so simple. My siblings

would challenge me to think, to decide for myself. And that’s when it clicked—just a

slight change in perspective could change the entire story.

Think about photographers. They may have the latest cameras, the best gear, and

impressive technical skills. But what truly sets the best apart is their eye for the right

angle. They find perspectives others miss, and even at the highest level, no two

photographers capture the world in the same way. It’s all about relativity,

comparison, and choosing that one angle from the endless possibilities.

When it comes to my own life, I don’t waste time stressing over finding a brand-new

solution if there’s already a tried-and-true one. But here’s the catch: is there ever a

perfect solution? It depends on how you look at it. I’m open to using old methods,

but I’m not afraid to mix them up, combine them, or add my own spin. After all, life

isn’t static—why should my approach be?

While this philosophy helps me understand people better, it doesn’t necessarily

change how I interact with them. My interactions stay steady, but my understanding

of others deepens. When perspectives clash, my instinct is to consolidate our

approaches, or if that’s impossible, we work together to find a new path forward.

Does relativity make decision-making harder? Absolutely. But I’m not one to

overthink it. When things get too complicated, I trust my gut and go with what feels

right. It’s this balance—between understanding life through relativity and relying on

my instincts—that guides me.